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Andy
07-28-2008, 01:59 AM
Have you ever shown your writing to your parents?

Poll idea by Majyk.

Nyx
07-28-2008, 02:01 AM
I show them some stuff, but mostly not.

Carraka
07-28-2008, 02:03 AM
Mine goes from All the Time! to Nope, so I picked Sometimes. Basically, they could read it when it was public, but now everything is in Members-Only (they don't know yet), and they're not going to go to the trouble of becoming members so they can read my stuff.

Not because they don't like my work, but because ... I don't think they like becoming members. It bothers them.

Tsuki
07-28-2008, 02:08 AM
I picked sometimes because I can't show them the suicidal stories. They'd think something was wrong with me. :P

Phantom
07-28-2008, 02:12 AM
My parents are, well.... You would need to meet them. So, I chose nope.

Carraka
07-28-2008, 02:14 AM
Yup. I don't show them my self-indulging erotica stories.

... kidding!

Phantom
07-28-2008, 02:15 AM
Sure you are.

Tsuki
07-28-2008, 02:16 AM
Yup. I don't show them my self-indulging erotica stories.

... kidding!

I bet you're kidding.
:P

Midnight_Moon
07-28-2008, 02:24 AM
I love my parents but sometimes I don't like to show them my stuff but others I show, it depends on my mood and their mood that day and the piece of work.

Carraka
07-28-2008, 03:17 AM
Oh yeah?

Wanna bet?

Wait ... if this were true, I wouldn't want to prove it. xP

Hannah_Scotland
07-28-2008, 10:44 AM
I dont even think my parents know that I write :huh:

sXe_Jinxeh
07-28-2008, 07:06 PM
My mother is my unofficial editor, she reads through them and gives me tips. I don't like to show them everything, they get pissed at me when the characters start cussing.

Imelda
07-28-2008, 07:11 PM
I showed my mum my second novel, she read the first chapter, declared it depressing, and hasn't bothered to read any more ...

Majyk
07-28-2008, 07:13 PM
I showed my sister my novel, and she was the first person to read it through. Then my mom got interested, and she edits it for me now. But only with my novel. I didn't want her to read my short story, but she kept asking, and so I finally let her, but told her not to talk to me about it because it's a bit... strange for her. :p

blue phoenix
07-28-2008, 07:26 PM
wow I never tought of showing my Mom OR Dad hm might want to...

electrilad
07-28-2008, 08:17 PM
I told my mom that I was writing a novel, and that it was sci-fi, and then she told EVERYONE SHE KNEW about it, and I was like "WTF mom, why would you do that? I don't even know if I'm gonna finish it yet!!!!"

It was so embarrasing because my aunt said, "Oh, I heard your writing a book. Is it about superheroes?"

It is. But she made it seem totally dorky. And that's what my mom told everyone, that I was writing a superhero book. My family pisses me off so much, I don't bother to show them anything.

I'm getting mad at her again right now, reading ths over. MOM YOU BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, I'm better.

Simmi
07-28-2008, 08:29 PM
My dad keeps asking about my stories... and my I have cussing in it... and I'm not allowed to cuss AT ALL and it has some err like sexual harrassment in it so I have to tell him only the good parts... But he keeps asking and it's getting on my nerves... I NEVER show my parents anything, well I used to but I never do now. To many questions:glare:

The_First_Investigator
08-01-2008, 12:32 PM
I can't remember that anyone in my family or other connections would ever have read any of my texts. That might be because I never showed them to anyone. And that again is because no one asked me for any. Conclusion: no one was ever interested in my work (You won't find it here, because it's in German. Maybe I'll translate that stuff).

blue phoenix
08-01-2008, 07:48 PM
It's in German *teehee*, no hurt feelingd I just never thought about it.

The_First_Investigator
08-01-2008, 10:14 PM
It's in German *teehee*, no hurt feelingd I just never thought about it.

Without knowing what you exactly mean (yes, I'm confused now): of course it is in German. Because I'm German - okay, I write some stuff in English sometimes. But after once reading it again, I stop liking it and send it directly to the bin. And showing my grandparents (I have lived in my grandparents' house for umpteen years) English work wouldn't be sensible because they don't understand any English.
Uh, now I'm some interested: what do you mean with what you posted? This might be a silly question, but I don't quite understand it - not referring to the language, that I understand. I mean, content-related.

blue phoenix
08-02-2008, 03:19 PM
What I mean is: I thought about you being Germen but not you talking or writing in German, sorry to be confusing ^_^.

Mercy
08-02-2008, 03:51 PM
I have shown them once or twice. Most the time, I don't because we like different kinds of books. But if I show them to one of the two, it would always be my mom. ^^;

The_First_Investigator
08-02-2008, 07:09 PM
What I mean is: I thought about you being Germen but not you talking or writing in German, sorry to be confusing ^_^.

Ah, okay. You should really think a bit more . . . :D

random_writer
08-16-2008, 05:44 AM
Huh. My dad keeps asking, but he's very strictly Christian, and can't deal if I'm writing about any sort of romantic stuff at ALL... even as a subplot. A very minor subplot. That's why I keep passwords on my computer settings... My Student ID number is the only gift the state has ever given me... Nearly impossible to guess. Works well. Mom... well. Mom's just not the type to be all supportive and Is-there-anything-at-all-I-can-do-to-help?
So... NOPE. NEVER. That's how often I show my parents my writing. If they ask, I give them a basic outline-ish thing that is "edited" especially for them... but usually, they only ask how I'm doing, so I give them how many pages I have.

J.L.A.Montoya
08-17-2008, 07:24 AM
I was at a hair-cut appointment yesterday. The lady who does it, her name is Cindy. She's been doing my mom's hair forever, so they talk.

Cindy: "So, how's your novel coming along?"
Me: "Oh, it's um...I'm getting there, still writing...um..."
Cindy: "Oh, still in the development stage, uh?"
Me: "Uh...yeah...I'm getting there...Who told you? Did I tell you?"
Cindy: "No, your mom told me years back."

Great. My mom's been babbling about that 500-page piece of junk I wrote in Middle School. She's probably told her about the rewrite of that piece of junk I'm currently working on, too.

I don't e-mail my story, but I have sent them some essays I did. They liked it.

acrosse
08-18-2008, 08:06 PM
When I was younger I wrote a lot of horror stories, I showed my Dad once but he has dyslexia and wasn't able to read it so much, my mom just thought something was wrong with me. Thinking back.. most people did. Hmph, well, I'll show them!

Starry
08-19-2008, 12:28 AM
My parents can't concentrate on books long enough to read real stuff, let alone my works-in-progress (There is no way I'm related to them). Not to mention, they're still trying to "cure" me of my fantasy obsession, so showing them my all-fantasy collection of stories would probably not be a good idea.

That being said, I kind of wish I could get my parents interested enough to read my stories. That doesn't seem very likely at this point, though.

Shadow
08-19-2008, 05:41 PM
If I showed them my work, they'd say: "You're going the wrong way, you should just be a businessman." Not 'cos it's bad writing, even though it is anyway, but they like dumbing down creativity. My dad's the typical businessman who loves his money and my mum's the typical fashion-loving bitch. And no, that isn't teenage angst talking, it's true. You'd know if you lived with them. Why do you think I've been kicked out of my house? Heh. Anyway, I think you should be able to guess from this it's: "Nope".

ElephntFalingOffClif
09-25-2008, 09:04 PM
I do when I need help with something, if it's for school but otherwise no not really I dont even think Dad knows I write that much.

appleofmyeye
09-25-2008, 10:06 PM
I've never liked anything enough t show my mom, plus she wouldn't like it much. Not because of my writing but we have different tastes in book. Mine varies from from fantasy to romance to angst. Hers is... whatever I force her to read by pestering her for months. Apartently I'm turning into a teenager, complete with the occasional angst, so I must have severe depression. If, heaven forbid, I show my mom something not completely bubblegum she'll tell my therapist (court thing, not because I want to). And I'll be on Zoloft. Yay. Don't think my mom understands the characters are talking, not me :).

Emmer
10-30-2008, 04:48 PM
Nope. Not even essays for school. I feel like it's my special thing,my own world,my own characters. My stuff.

-Wallflower-
10-30-2008, 09:43 PM
Not serious stuff.
My English teacher praised some coursework I did and my parents asked me to show it to them >_<

I can't show them the suicidal stories. They'd think something was wrong with me. :P

Oh, I know what you mean. I know my parents too well to show them anything negative because, yeah, they'd think I'm depressed or something =p

Crazy Shyness
10-30-2008, 10:09 PM
I only showed them one thing because I was seven and it was the first thing I wrote.

eriko
11-06-2008, 12:18 PM
I don't show them all the rubbish I write but I discuss some of my plots with them. My parents never comment on it. They listen to what I say supportingly. But they discourage me from geting too much involved into writing. I don't blame them; in India you can not have your bread and butter without education. You have to top if you have to survive.

Shadow
11-09-2008, 11:24 AM
I still don't show them my writing, but they're now aware that I want to be a writer and, surprisingly, have no objections. They just insist that I take something besides writing in university, so I have something to fall back on if writing fails for me, which I intended to do anyway.

Silverwolf
11-15-2008, 04:48 AM
My mom thinks that my stories are...... how you put it, Weird, and disturbing.
So i rarely show her anything.
My dad on the other hand...................... doesn't care

appleofmyeye
12-28-2008, 02:17 AM
I think most people know how my mom would react if I showed her a story not about unicorns and sunshine :doh:.

I feel like I'm being so hard on her, it's like everywhere I go I see myself bashing her :P.

Crocolyle
12-28-2008, 05:51 AM
I sometimes show my parents my stories, rarely any of my longer works. My mom likes my stories as well as my poems. I really only show my dad my some of my scripts. He doesn't really have the same taste I do in Literature, so naturally my writing isn't really anything he likes...

Starry
12-28-2008, 05:05 PM
My parents are kind of ambivalent to the idea of me writing. Unless I manage to get myself published, to which their response is, "Oh hey, that would look good for colleges."

Shadow
12-28-2008, 05:08 PM
I'd rather show my English teacher my work than my parents. He's taught authors when they were teenagers, so he'd probably be able to give me some good advice. He'd maybe even be able to edit it.

kitkat
12-28-2008, 07:57 PM
I ever show my parents my work. Not like that stops my mom from going though my stuff till she finds my notebook, AND THEN SHE WILL START MAKING CHECKING MY SPELLING!!! Ive told her that the stories i write i write thinking no one will ever read them, THEN SHE GO'S AND GETS ME ON TO THIS WED SITE!!!

appleofmyeye
01-04-2009, 09:45 PM
I didn't know this was a wed site? Who's getting married?